So people say life is complicated... I am still trying to understand why being nice, helping others and loveing, cherishing every moment like it is your last is soo complicated... Life is only complicated if you are dishonest or problematic.. You determine the life you lead not others... well unless you follow... but that really shouldn't be an option.. We should all take our swords and dive into lifes actions with our armor ready for any situation.. Not standing behind waitning on the man before us to fall.. we are hear to help oursleves succeed not stand behind the shadows and follow others into death.. More of us will make it through with the help of our brothers and sisters.... Every day of life is a battle against time it is only up to us to take our time and make something of it... LIVE LOVE AND BE LOVED... Life is but a path that each and every one of us have to walk down...... Do you lead or follow? I will only ever lead. I will not be shadowed by someon else's decisions.... My memories will Not be encouraged by someone else's wants. I have read the book of my life and i have decided that with out my being the author. I would not be satisfied. If every decision was based on wat the person in front of you is doing. Who's mirrored image of a life are you living....? I do not allow one bad moment or one bad thing bring my spirit down to the extent that my day is completly bad. If i am asked "How was your day." my honest answer would most definitely be "There were a few obstacles, but i am alive and well. It was a good day." Wat else could i say.... If i based my day on the mood that a lady at the clinic could have put me in. When she came in with an attitude. My day could have been led into a bad atmosfear and away from the day that it has the potential to be. I took it upon myself to turn the other cheeck and smile and say " Have a Blessed day." Notice the difference in leading and following. How can someone lead a life down a depressed and lonely path. If they are leading.... You have the inner power to have any day you choose.. Good can come from any situation. Say you have a flat... Maybe just maybe if you would'nt have had a flat the delay would'nt have been there for you to miss that child running accross the road after her ball a few miles up the road. How do you know there wasnt a good reason for it.. How can you look at something as small as a set back and let it ruin ur day. You have the power to adjust the way your mood is, so that your day can be in a sence the way you choose. Take life in your grasp and help leave an impression of good on each and every person you run into... including yourself..... Optimism is kinda hard to get the hang of, but once you are more happy than stressed or depressed. Finding the good becomes your way of life.... I would have never imagined how much better and easier life could be with just the speck of a better difference that was so easily made. I am a person who cares nothing about embarrassment. If i have the chance to make you laugh. Im takin no second thoughts... Every day something isnt going to go your way.. take that chance to be optimistic and a stronger happiness and easier sailing for the day can come.......... Take hold of your wants and take them full force. Your power is stronger when you know you have it. Love all Peace and War Meliss G